I wasn't like this before but something made me change and i can neverhange back again. No one have one through what i've gone though and no one knows what i truely feel not even myself. I just try to hide and hide and sometimes it just pops out like a jack in the box. I am brought up to not depend on men. Men in my family cannot be trusted and had hurt me and my mother and grandmother. Its enough. Just let us go.
Everytme i get into a relationship, i warn ppl about my character and they all say they can take it. Tell me how much they love me and no matter what they will still love me. All are rubbish. 8 relationships all failures.
I admit that i am:
- tempremental (easily gets agitated and flares up but cools downs easily)
- lazy - weak in health
- still hanging on the fears of the past
- loud
- crazy
- daring ( in a sense of speech)
and many more......If you cannot accept the worst of me then u are not worthy to accept the best from me. I will submit to no-one.
Don't provoke me and don't even think about trying to take advantage of me. I have had it. Don't make me turn into a wandering spirit and dun make me unfilial to my mother.
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"8 relationships all failures"? how u ever wondered why? why are u persistently blaming the other party for the failure of the relationship? have you ever considered that it might be your fault?
ReplyDeletedid u really let every one of ur ex-bfs know just what problems you are facing and your volatile nature? weren't you always the one who tried to find fault with the relationship?
8 relationships? have you ever considered the fact that you are barely 22 and yet you were already in so many relationships? have you ever wondered why all ended in the way they did? was it really their fault? u mean u r not to blame at all?
its so typical for people like you to whine and complain, as if its always the fault of other people and never yours.
people have bent over backwards for you numerous times, and all you can do is just complain? but i suppose that is the only thing u can do. pity.
based on your ideal outlook on life, all guys have to prostrate in front of you every single time they see you? who do you think you are? people don't have to always please you, do you even know that?
you make it sound like you care about your mother a lot. oh please. don't say things that you yourself know you don't mean it.
this whole pity-me-because-i-am-who-i-am routine just leave a bit taste in my mouth. period.
You have no right to say such things when u know nothing
ReplyDeleteyou dun even know the story behind each relationship. So don't judge people
ReplyDeletei'm just saying: 8 relationships + a young girl = this statistic is clearly against you.
ReplyDeletethere must be a reason why all of them failed.
how many of them actually lasted a year? - very likely, none. unless u started dating since 14, or way before that.
how many of those relationships did you seriously contemplate marriage? - possibly none. since you seem stuck forever in the im-always-right mode.
when something happens to a relationship, it is almost impossible that the fault wholly falls on just one party. what are the chances? it takes two hands to clap. if you think i have no right to say such things because you think that "know nothing", please ask yourself this: then who are you to simply conclude that you are right and all your previous bfs are wrong? have you ever try to listen to their side of the story? or were they forever trying to cater to all your needs that there was no time on your part at all to even listen to them? its a two way process, they can't forever be the one listening, and you, being pampered by them.
i'm just trying to say that it might be ideal if you were to relook how u lead your life; how you actually treat your boyfriends; and not consistently blame them and the rest of the world when something bad happens.
there are people who lead much diasterous life than you and yet they are in one perfect piece. you are evidently, falling apart and disintegrating, piece by piece.
You dont know the stories behind her 8 relationships. though it takes two hands to clap, she still have her rights to vent her anger. Being her friend, i seen her reflecting on how she could improve herslef but when you have a past that you couldnt walk out it becomes harder, but it doesnt mean that she is not trying.
ReplyDeleteit's always the case when a guy want to chase a girl, he always assume that he knows it all, no matter how much we tell them they refuse to listen. Only when things happen, they start to point their fingers and say that they didnt see it coming. so whose fault is it then? When we tell you things seriouly about ourselves, do you bother to listen and bare it in mind?
another thing, guys go all out to please a girl they like but when they claim their prize all that fade away so who's it to blame when we find that you no longer care so much and start to grumble?
IF YOU DONT KNOW THE SITUATION DONT COMMENT - dont think you know it all (typical guy, full of himself!!!)
F*** OFF LOSER
ReplyDeleteOh you are so wrong. That shows how much you don't know about me. tisk tis. my first 4 was crushes which i consider a relationship. the other 3 we were together for more then a year. Only the recent one was due to some personnal reasons.
ReplyDeleteI did not ay they were wrong. I know i was too. Didn't you see the word that i admit that i am:........
"i'm just saying: 8 relationships + a young girl = this statistic is clearly against you. " (for goodness sake what era are you in???)
ReplyDeleteWat era are u in man. 8 and u think its like terrible. You really have not seen the world. I don't want to be in the relationship because of reasons.
ReplyDeleteI don't want to give in to sex or to keep lending them money or stay in a violent relationship. Is that wrong. Do i have to degrade myself o have sex with every guy. I don't want to be a loose person.
Whoever this Ungentleman is, we know you will never reveal who you are. That's not what we really wanna know anyway, in fact don't reveal yourself or else your reputation shall be tarnish. What i wanna tell you is that, you have no rights to comment anything, not even your own opinion. As we can see here, you are obviously insecure due to your own personal experience in relationship or whatsoever! We don't know if you are one of Elaine's ex boyfriends or anyone who had been rejected by her, and hence now you wrote all these to provoke all of us and particularly her herself, but apparently this provocation is what you wanna vent your injustice out, probably you had suffered from her in terms of the course of a relationship or you've been rejected by her feeling very insecure and a loserby yourself, and now you wanna say something out to free yourself from this mental barrier and rejection.
ReplyDeleteIf you dare...let's face it face to face to one another without any disguise and stop acting like a loser to confront like a invisible man.
I'm Deroy Chu, Elaine's 8th ex, 96352636 i lay my hp number here, because i am in the Light, i can afford to reveal myself, you are in darkness, i hereby challenge you to revelation.
愛 情 裡 並 沒 有 誰 對 誰 錯
ReplyDelete只 有 誰 付 出 的 多 誰 付 出 的 少
我 不 懂 為 何 情 侶 間 吵 架 都 要 說 誰 對 誰 錯 呢
更 不 懂 分 手 後
為 何 還 要 去 追 究 之 前 付 出 的 到 底 值 不 值 得 呢
誰 對 誰 錯 和 值 不 值 得 真 的 有 這 麼 重 要 嗎
然 到 愛 情 就 一 定 要 搞 的 這 麼 難 懂 嗎
然 到 沒 有 誰 對 誰 錯 就 不 叫 愛 情 了 嗎
還 是 說 付 出 的 一 定 要 是 值 得 才 行 付 出
如 果 是 這 樣 的 話
那 我 想 說 你 們 何 必 說 愛 情 呢
因 為 你 們 根 本 不 懂 什 麼 是 愛 什 麼 是 付 出
你 們 更 不 懂 愛 情 裡 最 美 好 的 是 什 麼
說 真 的 以 前 的 我 一 直 都 覺 得 愛 情 裡 會 有 爭 吵
一 定 都 是 對 方 的 錯 一 定 都 是 對 方 不 好
到 了 最 後 分 手 的 時 侯 我 也 會 覺 得
我 付 出 了 這 麼 多 為 何 得 到 這 樣 的 對 待
直 到 後 來 我 才 發 現 我 之 前 錯 的 有 多 離 譜
如 果 愛 情 裡 有 誰 對 誰 錯 了 話
那 每 個 人 的 愛 情 不 都 一 樣 死 板 版 的 沒 有 一 點 活 力 了 嗎
如 果 每 段 感 情 都 要 在 乎 誰 付 出 的 比 較 多 和 值 不 值 得 的 話
那 愛 情 裡 還 有 什 麼 值 得 回 味 呢
所 以 不 要 再 去 想 愛 情 裡 誰 對 誰 錯 和 誰 付 出 的 比 較 多 值 不 值 得 這 麼 做
只 要 想 我 現 在 很 愛 這 個 人 我 想 跟 他 在 一 起
總 是 到 最 後 並 沒 有 結 果 也 沒 有 關 係
至 少 我 曾 經 擁 有 過 他 的 愛 就 好
至 少 對 他 對 你 都 不 會 有 很 大 的 傷 害
甚 至 分 手 後 還 可 以 繼 續 當 朋 友
說 真 的 愛 情 裡 並 沒 有 誰 對 誰 錯
也 沒 有 誰 付 出 的 比 較 多 和 值 不 值 得 這 些 東 西
只 是 看 你 自 己 什 麼 想
自 己 有 想 要 什 麼 樣 的 愛 情 罷 了
i don't see why anyone would bother commenting if all he or she wants to do is to provoke someone else. to spend time typing such a long message to just provoke someone is a bit illogical.
ReplyDeleteand it would be nicer if we do not resort to profanities.
i don't suppose anyone is claiming that he or she knows everything. just that a complete picture from both parties might provide a better idea of what exactly transpired.
i suppose it is not possible for either party to be blamed for everything that happened. both parties have to share some blame.
Girl, there is nothing wrong in having 8 relationships, because some of those guys really sucks to the ass, especially those I dint approve.
ReplyDeleteFinding the right guy to love, is not an easy task. When she tried to give the person a chance, i believe she put in her heart and soul, her feelings into it, hoping everything will turn out well.
To the person who is hiding behind the computer screen, if you are one of her ex bf, then you should jolly well know the reason to the breakup. If you are just a passer by, this is her blog, she can say what she likes. Of course you have the freedom to speak up, but, please be sensitive to what you are saying.
I am not defending her here that all the guys are wrong. There are some, she is in the wrong too. But everyone learn from mistakes. Give her a break if you can, or else encourage her to be stronger.
Cheer up girl!
anonymous, i do not know who u are, but what right do you have to say elaine. how much do you know her? if u say u do know her, speak out your name, dun be a coward using anonymous. we as her friend, have seen so much change on her. if you are one of her ex, say out your name. if not, get out of this blog. this is her personal blog, she have the right to write her feeling down, what right do you have to comment when you do not know anything at all.
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